A guest in white at a wedding: How to cope with an unexpected fashion statement
Regardless of the season, there are a few general rules that invited guests to a wedding should follow. One says never to wear white.
But what should a bride do if a guest disregards the tradition? Here are some tips from brides magazine for SSPDaily who will face such a situation.
This difficult scenario on such an important day is quite easy to handle. Don't panic and listen to the recommendations of etiquette expert Lisa Mirza Grotz.
1. Stay calm.
Yes, we know it will be unpleasant if you see a guest at the wedding dressed in white like the bride. But it's best to stay calm in this situation.
The stylist emphasizes that at a wedding, all attention should be focused on you, not on this guest, so there is no point in wasting your energy and nerves on stress. After all, you'll likely have many other important things to take care of, and if you focus on what matters most, you'll make your wedding day even better.
2. Patience.
Although you may have the idea to approach this guest and express your worrying thoughts, it is best to tread carefully and stay away from this person.
On this important day for you, don't make a scene and don't attract unnecessary attention. Believe me, if the guest doesn't understand that you shouldn't compete with the bride, it will become obvious to others.
If you want to remedy the situation, you can ask someone from your wedding party to gently approach the guest and offer him a jacket or shawl to add a little color.
The key is to make sure they understand the situation without making them feel awkward throughout the wedding.
3. Let go of the situation.
Don't overreact to the situation. You will be glad that you chose a calm reaction when you think about this day.
"Don't let a small problem with your clothes ruin your day," the etiquette expert advises.
Instead of focusing on the problem, pay attention to the people who love you and enjoy the moment. This holiday will be over quickly and you will want to preserve every good memory from start to finish.