Why Benji and Joel Madden "Fear" Their Wives Cameron Diaz and Nicole Richie

Good Charlotte members Benji Madden and Joel Madden recently shared insights into their marriages to Nicole Richie and Cameron Diaz. They described having a "healthy fear" as a positive aspect of their relationships.

Respecting Their Wives

Joel Madden emphasized respect in their marriages during a conversation on SiriusXM's Literally! With Rob Lowe. He stated, "We all respect our wives. They are absolutely our counterparts, and we all share a healthy fear of them. It's all in the best way." He expressed that meeting Nicole changed his perspective on relationships. "It’s not that I was a relationship guy, but she absolutely runs the show," he reflected.

This balance is crucial for their partnership. "There are aspects that I manage, but many parts of my life rely on her expertise," Joel explained while acknowledging his wife’s significant contributions. Joel appreciates Nicole's strength, viewing it as vital to his life. "She gave me a much richer life," he said, stressing mutual support between them.

Foundations of Stability

Benji Madden echoed Joel's sentiments, crediting Cameron with providing a solid foundation in his life. "It's more than just a part of your life; it’s a foundation," he shared, expressing how being with Cameron shifted his world positively. "When we met, it was as if everything fell into place," he explained, indicating that their meeting was affirming.

He humorously identified his wife's strength, stating, "That's the queen. Go against my wife? Good luck." Benji recognizes that strong women seek equally strong partners. "They don’t want to be with a pushover guy," he noted, adding that maintaining strength without ego is essential for a successful relationship.

Benji celebrated a decade of marriage with Cameron in a heartfelt Instagram post, calling her his "QUEEN." He praised her multifaceted roles in his life, stating that every year together has been increasingly fulfilling. "It’s special," he wrote, highlighting their bond, and expressing gratitude for their journey together.

"Never perfect — always real — always reliable," he concluded, conveying how essential companionship is in their shared life.