Chad Michael Murray Shares His Perspective on True Sexiness and Personal Growth

Chad Michael Murray, once a teen idol known for his appearance in the popular drama series "One Tree Hill," reflects on his youthful stardom and how he views the concept of sexiness now. At 43, preparing for the release of his Netflix holiday film "The Merry Gentlemen," Murray explains to PEOPLE that being sexy is rooted in a mindset of confidence and self-awareness. It's not merely about looks; it's about self-acceptance and going to bed without regrets. He adds that true sexiness also involves being selfless, kind, and inspirational to others.

Looking back, Murray sees his earlier years, especially the time when Teen People named him one of the 50 Sexiest Guys in 2004, as drastically different. He recalls how self-conscious he was about his appearance back then. Now, he embraces a simpler, blue-collar, and homebody lifestyle, far removed from his previous heartthrob image. He acknowledges the challenges of youth, admitting there was no guide to navigating fame, dealing with scrutiny, or appreciating what one has.

Despite what he might have thought during his formative years, Murray wouldn't alter his past as it shaped who he is today. Previously married to co-star Sophia Bush and now settled with actress Sarah Roemer and their three children, he's learned the importance of receiving "no" for answers, which helps frame real growth. This wisdom informs his advice to his younger self to seek mentors whose guidance would stick beyond the momentary listening of his youth. As Murray is still active in the industry after 25 years, he now truly values this stage of his life, considering himself happier than ever.

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