People Think My Wedding Rule is Selfish – But I Don't Care if I'm a Bridezilla

A bride named Madeleine White has sparked a heated debate over her controversial wedding decision, which has been both praised as the 'best' choice and condemned as 'selfish'. Despite the backlash, the bride-to-be has staunchly defended her choices.

For many, planning a wedding can be an exercise in trying to satisfy everyone. Concerns range from ensuring guests enjoy the food and have enough to drink, to making sure everyone is having a good time.

However, digital creator Madeleine, who has gained a following of 4.6 million on TikTok, isn't afraid to upset some people. "Maybe I am becoming a bridezilla after all," she admitted after her strict wedding 'rules' went viral. In a recent video, Madeleine revealed she opted for a destination wedding to exclude 'fair-weather' guests, those who might only attend for the free food and drinks. "If people are willing to travel all the way to Europe to see us get married, they must really care about us," she explained.

Although many have criticized her for being 'selfish' and preventing some guests from attending, Madeleine stood firm. "That's the point," she emphasized, noting that the destination was chosen to "slim the herd." Despite the costs and effort required to attend, Madeleine promises to give guests the 'best time ever' as compensation.

The reactions have been mixed but passionate. Supporters of Madeleine's approach flooded the comments, with one user praising destination weddings as the best option. Another commenter shared that switching to a destination wedding drastically reduced their guest list to close friends and family who were happy to make the trip. Meanwhile, another wedding-goer recounted having a destination wedding for the same intent to focus on those who truly wanted to celebrate with them.

On the flip side, critics argue that such decisions can place a financial burden on guests, potentially preventing many who care deeply but can't afford the travel expenses from attending. One commenter pointed out, "If I did that, I'd feel so guilty that my friends and family would have to spend so much of their savings." Another mentioned family members being unable to join due to financial constraints.

Responding to the criticism, Madeleine mentioned she has planned some relief by covering hotel accommodations for immediate family and the wedding party. Additionally, she has arranged for discounted rates at local hotels for all other guests.

Ultimately, Madeleine remains unapologetic and committed to her wedding vision, emphasizing that sometimes you can't please everyone on your big day.

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