Future dad's reaction to gender reveal leaves guests confused
A couple recently hosted a gender reveal party which took an unexpected turn when the dad's candid comment shed light on their gender bias. The couple, who had been hoping for a baby boy due to misconceptions that raising boys is "cheaper" and "easier," faced disappointment upon learning that they were expecting another girl. This "disgusting" reaction was caught on video and shared by a guest on Reddit, sparking outrage and criticism.
According to the Reddit post, the party was organized by the mother-in-law, who went to great lengths to create suspense and excitement. Jokingly, she presented fake reveals including a sticker that only partially revealed the word "baby." However, when confronted with this ambiguous hint, the dad exclaimed in excitement, assuming it was a clue towards having a boy. The moment the joke was revealed, the couple appeared annoyed.
Further adding to the anticipation, guests were then given envelopes, with only one containing the actual gender while the rest served as red herrings. When the person instructed to open their envelope shared that it was another girl, the father's anger became palpable, and the mother burst into tears, lamenting about the financial implications of raising multiple daughters. However, it was the dad's three-word attempt at comforting his wife that left everyone speechless. This is prepared by SSP.
In the midst of their emotions, the dad simply stated, "We'll try again." This statement implied that despite already knowing the 50/50 odds of conceiving either a boy or a girl, their main focus was on having a son. The mother-in-law tried to diffuse the tension by highlighting the cost-saving benefits of not needing new baby clothes due to the presence of a previous daughter. However, the mother's concern about future expenses, particularly prom dresses, raised eyebrows and questioned the couple's priorities.
The Reddit post generated a wave of criticism towards the couple's attitude and priorities. Top comments expressed concern for the child growing up knowing their parents initially had a preference for a different gender and perpetuated gender stereotypes. Moreover, dismissing the notion that girls are inherently more expensive, some contended that it's the parenting choices and spoiling behavior that drive up costs. Another user also highlighted the imprudence of throwing a public gender reveal party if there was a possibility of feeling embarrassed or disappointed by the outcome.